Marriage is a form of union of two individuals into one common purpose, a lasting happiness with a partner. However, love alone is not enough because there will be many challenges and problems that arise to disturb the life of house hold. When the interference occurs, just remember Ozirney 10 tips in her Happy Knot: How Your Marriage Can Be (Tate Publishing & Enterprises, New York, 2007)
1. Be Prepared to Make Sacrifices
Any individuals who committed themselves in marriage inevitably have to be prepared to make sacrifices for their partner. Sometimes only in a small matter, it required great sacrifice. Of course this kind of sacrifice must come from both sides. If one being selfish, of course, can be a trigger irritation and treated unjustly.
2. Still Have Time to Yourself
It is nice when you have an activity or hobby that can be done together, but do not forget, you also need to do activities unaccompanied your spouse. At this time, you can clearly reflect your love life back together. Then do the correction themselves about the things you need to do to improve marital happiness and avoid boredom for tandem continues. In addition, all alone for a moment can be used to evaluate how much you miss your partner.
3. Maintaining Intimacy and Romanticism
Husband and wife who've been married for long time are sometimes less concerned about intimacy and romanticism. No more words of praise, have dinner together, even the attention was often so expensive. Yet the key to successful relationships is the little things of value for the couple. Through gestures, words full of love and little attention, the love can be maintained.
By giving a flower, kiss on the cheek, holding hands, praising each other, or a stroll along the romantic places, will return to sprinkle the love of a spouse.
4. Good on Manage Family Finances
Nowadays, most couples are working. Economic factors can not be underestimated. Imagine what would happen if households can not be supported by adequate financial condition. Properly regulate the family economy also will provide security and happiness.
5. Sharing Household Tasks and Child Care
Both of these provide opportunities for couples to work as a solid team. Clearing house activities and child care can be a means to strengthen marriage.
6. Honest and Open Communication
Communication is one of the strong pillars for husband-wife relationship. Many couples reduce their intensity communication because of too busy with their own activities. How communication can be woven seamlessly when couples can not greet each other. So, try to always keep the communication with your partner.
Take time to sit and chat together, even if only five minutes every day. Give him a call or send SMS romantic. Greeting "good morning" or "good night" in bed can also be used to communicate. The point is to create the communication so that each person feels needed.
7. Do not Burry the Problem
Whatever your feelings to your partner, it should always be communicated. Particularly dislike or that would offend you. If you hesitate for fear of embarrassment or trouble, in fact you are being kept bomb ready to explode at any time.
Politely point out your frustration and objective to your partner. If you feel upset or angry, show that you just want him to correct his behavior and did not hate him as a person.
8. Realize Both of You are Different Persons
The difference is not only a short time, but it lasts forever. Be reasonable when the marital bond will always be colored due to the different disputes. Not only differences of opinion but also due to disagreement with other differences. Couples who fail in a marriage are generally placed too high expectations that their partners will change according to their wishes.
While the couple whose wedding is generally preserved due to address differences by differences wisely. Differences should not have to destroy a marriage, but rather enriching each looking for the best solution by always prioritizing marital happiness.
9. Be Spontaneous
These positive habits can be applied at any time. For instance, create a romantic atmosphere, schedule a dinner out, make love, mutual praise, give attention and other surprises nature.
Spontaneity is useful to avoid boredom in marriage. Besides who does not like to get a pleasant surprise? Importantly, these shocks must be sincere and full of love.
10. Always Remember the Best Things of Your Partner
What are the best things in your spouse makes the decision to marry him? Always remember the best things of your partner. It will always lead you to some sweet memories are endless and make him feel precious in your eyes.
Everything could have changed. But the reason why you were so loved him will always be etched in his heart. Vice versa, so that both sides will always be committed to maintaining this valuable things, and maintain a marriage.
